I know that feeling that comes with being
single, in a world where you see people
around you loving up and getting hooked by
the one they love.
Most times, you feel not so bothered, you
wish to love and be loved right back, but here
you are single and maybe unhappy. Often
times, you can’t wrap your head around why
you are single to stupor.
You wait on intending spouse to come your
way, you even have design of what your
wedding day would be, the kind of dress, the
ambiance and many more. Before you know it,
it’s just a dream and you are still single.
Relationship is not for everyone, but some
people complain bitterly about being single,
and they get curious to know the reason
behind it. Below is a list of possible reasons
why you are still single to stupor.
1.YOU ARE NOT READY:
There are times we tell ourselves we are not
ready, but if you keep saying you are not
ready, you may never be ready. If you find the
right one, give them the chance, instead of
waiting till you are ready.
Many times, we feel we still have enough time
and we just play around till we get caught
unaware. You send off potentials intending
spouse away, all because you are not ready.
2.YOU HAVE A CHECKLIST:
Many times, we go about with a list of our
spec. We are too interested in the flashy
things we could get from a relationship,
instead of facing the real deal. We want
someone that is already financially stable,
someone that is cute, tall, pink lips, a
particular tribe, age and other qualities.
3.YOU HAVE A WRONG ATTITUDE:
So many people are single with wrong
attitudes. Do you ever wonder why it is so
difficult for people to approach you? It is
either you turn them off with your attitudes.
Sometimes, you see yourself as a perfect
person and ignore those obvious flaws.
The attitudes could be nagging, laziness, rude
way of talking, disrespect and many more.
4. YOU LOVE THE SINGLE LIFE:
This happens when you are so in love with
your status and you feel there is no need
adding another to it. Your life feels happy and
the idea of being single is just cool by you.
Single life gives you time to express yourself
without someone controlling your life, telling
you how to live it.
It’s a cool thing to love the feeling, but most
times, the stress of being alone could be
worse. The moment you get tired of staying
single, you see yourself opening up to a
relationship.
5.YOU DON’T GET OUT THERE:
Love itself is a risk. You can’t expect love to
come to you or fall at your door step. You
don’t necessarily have to go out and place a
card of being single round your neck, but you
could be active online and try out new people.
If you don’t make yourself visible, you can’t
attract the one you want. You need to be
approachable to get people interested in
dating you. Talk to people outside, look good
when you step out, push yourself out there.
If these are the reasons why you are still
single to stupor, you need to make conscious
efforts to get hooked. Truth is being single is
not so much of a good feeling, even though
you try to act not bothered or the freedom
attached to it.
Most of your friends are off the single market
and you are out there trying to figure it out. If
you find yourself exhibiting any of the listed
items, it is never too late to get it fixed.
Culled from Palmchat
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